Do you have a question
One of the best ways to learn is to ask questions? One wise mother would meet her children at the door when they come back from school and ask - Did you ask your teacher a very good question today? From a very young age, the children learnt to learn by asking questions.
So I am throwing a challenge. Ask me any question at all on something you would like to know and I will endeavour to get an answer.
Just ask by clicking the comment link right below this line!
1) Why is yawning infectious?
2) Why do people say we should not eat more than one egg a day
Why is yawning contagious? It is possibly an in built reminder to some one else sitting closeby, who may also be bored or tired, to take a deep breath and expel the build up of CO2 within.
2) Eggs are rich in cholesterol and cholesterol has been linked to narrowing of the arteries and heart problems, especially in older people. So it is better to eat eggs in moderation
First, you'll need to be clear on what your dreams are. For clarity, it helps to write it down. Once you put in on paper it becomes a bit more tangible. Pray about it. Then set a plan which will give you steps to attain those dreams. The steps should be broken down into manageable proportions. Then set time lines for those steps. You may not always achieve your plans within those times but the time lines provide a goal to work towards. As you achieve each step, tick it off and give thanks to God. Work hard, be diligent, don't allow yourself to be distracted. Make necessary adjustments and you'll see your dreams coming true.
QUE2:Is it wise to tell my fiancee that i have slept with my pastor?
Quite some tough question and i can only give my honest opinion.
To answer the first question, you need to remember that the Holy Spirit is a person whose role in our lives is to love, comfort, teach, direct, lead, warn us of danger and convict us of sin and so on. He is the presence of God, present with us in this dispensation to stand with us and help us to live the way God expects us to.
A feeling of emptiness is usually caused by the fact that there is a break in our relationship with him. C.S. Lewis once said that everyone has a vacuum inside shaped like God, we may try to fill it with things but things will never fit. Only God himself can satisfy the our longing for peace.
A break in the relationship can be caused by distraction, sin, or just not spending enough time with Him.
So what do you do? Sincerely repent of any sin. Consciously take time out to be with Him even if you have to lock yourself in the room for an hour or so and just talk, express yourself and tell Him how you feel. If you are feeling empty, you will be surprised that God also is longing for you to be restored to him. If you draw near to Him, He has promised he will draw near to you. Once you are restored make sure you stay close to him, no relationship thrives without constant communication.
On the second question, anyone will be quick to define what happened as an abomination. But even as Christians if we are not careful, strange things can happen. I believe you are repentant and hate what has happened. I also believe you have asked God to forgive you. He has promised he will be faithful and just to forgive our sins and cleanse us from all unrighteousness. I suggest you carefully avoid a situation where this kind of thing will repeat itself.
Did this happen while you were engaged? Then i think you should prayerfully tell your fiancée. I have come to realize that there is nothing hidden under the sun and somehow he may get to know later. If he loves you there is a chance he may be willing to work your relationship through even this. Obviously you have done a great wrong and even though he doesn't know now, the relationship is severely wounded. Will he break up the relationship? Possibly.But 90% of the time we have to bear the consequences of our actions even if God has forgiven us.
In everything i believe the most important thing you need to seek now is to have your relationship with God restored. If you send me your e-mail address i will like to discuss this further
On the other hand loneliness comes from self - pity. Forget about yourself for a moment and extend a hand to someone else, smile, share, encourage, give. That will surely lift your countenance and give you joy. And maybe by doing that, you may just find a true friend.